Come Along for the Ride.....

Sit back and marvel as we take a drive down the road to adoption. You have a front row seat to the ins & outs of this amazing process. Our journey to China will come sooner than expected and our goal is to share with you all that this great adventure entails. Are you ready? .....

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

A Busy Day!


Today (Tuesday) has been a great day! We took a trip to the Guangzhou Zoo and had a blast. We left the hotel at 9:15 and returned at about 12:30. It was the perfect amount of time and Reid did great. Actually, all the kids did great. The weather was a bit cool, about 62 degrees, partly cloudy and breezy. We were just happy to be out of the hotel and off the island. We got to see lots of the traditional zoo animals, including a bunch of monkeys which turned out to be Reid's favorite! We got to drop crackers to a bunch of monkeys in the monkey pit and he thought that was the bomb. We finally had to tell him no more crackers so we could leave and join the rest of our group that had walked on without us. Reid enjoyed being a big boy and walking by himself (even if only for a short bit) which was a good thing, but it did slow us down considerably as you can see from the picture of us maneuvering the steps. I think we were always at the tail-end of the group, but we didn't mind. We were experiencing another first with our little boy.

When we got to the elephants, I think Reid got scared. That animal was really big and really close. I would have been scared too if I was a small fry staring up at that thing!!
Needless to say, we didn't stay there very long .

It wasn't long after that we decided Reid had to ride in the stroller..... he was getting tired and so where we.

In an effort to keep him amused, we pulled out the big guns - a sucker! It worked like a charm. He rode the rest of the way through the park and was almost asleep when we arrived at the front gate, ready for departure. It was perfect timing! Butch headed to the concession stand, bought a Pepsi for the two of us and we hopped on the bus and headed back to the hotel, our home away from home. We had decided on the ride back that we would just head straight to lunch at Lucy's as soon as we returned. A quick bathroom pit-stop and we were off....

When we got to Lucy's it was busy - Chinese babies everywhere. We ordered a beer (for Butch and myself) Malaysian fired rice (yummy!) and corn on the cob for Reid. It was another first for him. He loved that corn! You can tell from the photos that he takes his eating very seriously. He can pack away some food. It took him a few minutes for him to figure out how to best eat the corn, but he managed quite well. He polished off both ears and was quite proud of himself and of course, we made a big deal about it! We are having so much fun with him and I think he's enjoying us, too! He realizes we are the best gig in town.

After a filling lunch we headed back to our room for some R&R. Nap time was easy today, we were all exhausted. We put the little man down on a big comforter between our beds and he was out like a light. Butch and I were right behind him. We snoozed until our phone rang and that was the end of our rest. Thank goodness Reid slept on... the boy could sleep through a bomb going off. That's a great thing 'cause at home things are loud.

After our nap we had restored our energy and needed to burn some off. We headed for the playroom and had a blast. We remembered to take our ball with us today which was helpful as there is only one in the playroom. As you can see, Reid really enjoyed himself. He laughed and laughed. He ran around, climbed on me (you can see the pain), climbed on Butch and laughed some more. When we left I was pooped! I'm so not as young as I used to be....

Dinner tonight will be another trip to Lucy's. It's cheap and an easy walk from the hotel. After dinner we will return for a bath and bedtime. Hopefully he will fall asleep without an incident. We don't like the Chinese meltdown. He makes this really ugly face we have dubbed the "rat face" and we don't like seeing the "rat face." It's the same face he made on Gotcha Day and we'd prefer to never see it again.

Thanks to all of you for your feedback. We can't access the blog to read your comments, we can only post. I had a friend copy and paste some of the feedback into an e-mail for us - it made our day. If anyone wishes to communicate with us, feel free! We have internet service and can check e-mail, which we do a few times a day. We'd love to hear from you. We feel so fortunate to be able to share our amazing adventure with all of you.

Love from China!

Monday, January 21, 2008

Down Time


We have a lot of down time in our schedule here in China and we are over it! For those of you that know us, we have a hard time in the "chill out" department, so you can only imagine how we must feel. There's not but so much you can do with a very active toddler before he gets bored and wants to move on to the next adventure. He loves the playroom here in the hotel, but we would prefer an outside park with grass. We can't wait to go home.

As Reid becomes more comfortable with us, his little personality seems to blossom. He has become even more active which makes it difficult for us to take good pictures. Thank the Lord for digital cameras and the magic "delete" button. I feel like I'm constantly snapping photos in an attempt to get a few good ones. We have managed to get a few really cute pictures of this amazing little boy which may help you get a glimpse at his amazing personality. He plays hard and he sleeps hard! We love nap time!!

Thursday, January 17, 2008

One Week and Counting....

It's hard to believe we've been in China for one week. Today marks the half-way point and honestly, I can't wait to go home. We are enjoying our stay. The White Swan Hotel is lovely and the park nearby is beautiful, but it's just not home. I get very tired of the store owners trying to coax us into their shop so that they can show us every piece of junk they sell in hopes of making a sale. I have stayed away... far, far away, but will have to venture in as we get closer to departure date. We need a few things and I'm not sure I will be able to find them cheaper anywhere else.
It's also hard to believe that we've had Reid for 4 days. Everyday brings a new development in his personality. He's quite the funny little man. I think he'll fit in nicely at our home. He's also very active not unlike other toddlers. It's just been so long since we had one running around the house that I had forgotten how fast they can be. Life should be interesting when we get back home.

Since "Gotcha Day" we have been busy with appointments. On Tuesday we had to return to the Provincial Civil Affairs building (where we received the children) so we could register the adoption paperwork. There had been 48 families (not all with our group) that received children on Monday and we had been warned that the process for the registration would take longer than usual because of the large number. We all had to go through the same process. Thank goodness this particular floor was bright and colorful and offered things to keep the kids busy. Reid and I played ball with this shiny thing that looked like a big plastic Christmas ornament. I thought it was odd, but hey, it worked... kept him busy for a while. I think we were at that appointment for at least 2 hours which really stretched my patience. Thank the Lord that about the time my rear-end went numb from sitting on a very short stool designed for a toddler, our name was called and we could get up and go to a different room for our "interview." These interviews (2 total) didn't take too long, but gave us just enough movement to get the blood flowing to the lower half. :-) While we were waiting, Butch pulled out the camera and snapped some pictures. We discovered that Reid, while he doesn't mind getting his picture taken, he's not happy with the flash. Not a good thing if you want to take pictures at night or in low light, but we seem to be making it work. I think by the time we get home, he'll be quite adjusted and won't mind the camera, flash and all. So, once we were done at the Registration Appointment, the adoption was complete in the eyes of the Chinese Government. Reid is ours!! It was well worth the long wait to know that we are officially his forever family.......

After returning to the hotel, we promptly headed to "Lucy's" for lunch. It's a fun little dive that is very near the hotel. It's very "western." They serve a few Asian dishes like fried rice and noodles, but mostly they have American food like hamburgers and grilled cheese. We soon discovered another food that Reid likes - chicken quesadillas. Yep, he's so gonna fit into our family! We sat on the patio, under an umbrella and had our lunch before returning to the room for a nap. Well, Reid napped, Butch did homework and I blogged. It was a good use of two hours. That night we went to a local Cantonese restaurant. That was different! We were the only white people in the place and nobody in there spoke much English, but we managed. We had an amazing meal. I think it was my favorite so far. We had hunan beef, sweet & sour chicken and fried rice - oops, I almost forgot about the spring rolls. Reid LOVES him some spring rolls. I think he'd be happy eating nothing but spring rolls. I'm gonna have to learn how to make these fine little delicacies... I hope Rusty can help me out!

On Wednesday we went to apply for Reid's passport. We traveled by bus to to the Chinese passport agency which reminded me a lot of DMV. We were told to go in and take a seat - again, there were lots of those same families there waiting to apply for passports for their children, so we had to wait, but not too long. Jason (our adoption agency rep.) called our name, handed us some paperwork and took us to the front of the line. We waited for a free counter and proceeded with caution. Chinese officials of any sort look scary. We presented our passports and paperwork and waited a few seconds for the lady to hand us a document. Done! That's it? No thank you, no nothing? We got up and made room for the next people in line. About the time we finished, it was time to go. Back on the bus (I'm beginning to see a pattern here) and to the hotel. Later that night all the families met in the lobby and went to get Chinese food at a nearby restaurant. It was yummy!

Thursday morning we went shopping at a local department store. Not a lot of killer deals, but we did manage a few purchases. We got back in time for lunch and a very short nap before heading to the nearby photo shop to get the kids pictures taken for their visa applications and no, I don't mean credit card.... After that we took a short walk to the local medical clinic (yuck!) for a quick physical. It was a lot like a sports physical, but Reid hated it all the same. The minute the doctor stuck the thing in his one good ear to have a look-see, he wigged out! Things went from bad to worse when that same doctor put the tongue depressor in his mouth. Yikes, we still had two more stations to get through. Could we make it? I don't see how.... At least we know he has a healthy set of lungs! When we finally got done, Reid had a big 'ol case of the ass. He was not happy with his new mom & dad! He wouldn't look at Butch which lasted for a couple of blocks and then, poof, the attitude was gone! Thank God! It would have been a really long night, if not. We headed back to our room and called it an early night. We ordered Papa John's Pizza to be delivered to the hotel and made some Ramen Noodles for the little man. Now let me take a minute to describe this fascinating scene.. I hope I can do it justice. The bowl of Ramen came from local convenience store (market) and I purchased them so I'd have something to feed the machine in a pinch. When we decided to stay in the hotel for the evening due to cold, rainy weather, we figured Reid would enjoy the noodles more than the pizza. I added boiling water and we waited for the noodles to cook. When they were done, they filled the bowl. As you can see from the picture, the bowl is rather big. It would be enough to fill me up. We watched in amazement as this pint-sized China-man began to slurp down the noodles. He kept eating and eating until that bowl was empty! Yep, empty. I could not believe my eyes and then he wanted to try some pizza. Wow, he's gonna be expensive! Can't help but love those cheeks, though. We finished the day as we usually do - laughing, of course!
We are having a ball!

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Gotcha Day

For those that are unfamiliar with the term "Gotcha Day," it is the day that an adoptive family actually receives their child. It is a really big day! For us, it happened on January 14, 2008 in an unassuming office on the 9th floor of the Provincial Civil Affairs Office in Guangzhou, China. We knew when we arrived in Guangzhou that we would not receive the children until 4:00 p.m on Monday because most of the baby girls were coming from an orphanage 7 hours away. There were 2 boys and 13 girls that would be handed to their forever families that day and we were fortunate that Reid only had to travel about 2 hours. We also knew that we would be the second family to meet their child, so we would not have to wait with anticipation as long as those other families. What a blessing!

We arrived by bus at our destination and made our way to the dreary office where we all took a seat and made ourselves comfortable. Butch and I were informed that Reid had not arrived with his caregivers, so we would need to wait to receive him. Probably would be after the other girls. No problem, we'd waited this long... A few moments later a bustle of activity began to take place and Chinese people started filing past us (at a very rapid pace) into the adjoining room... they were carrying the babies and oh, a child walking.... hmmm.... it took me a minute to process that I had just seen the back side of our new son. He had arrived and we would still receive him second! Woohoo...

And so it began... The first family got their little boy... it was precious! Oh my, now it was our turn. We knew that he did not like strangers and we were gonna give him space. I hadn't even considered how he would feel with all the other families standing around looking at him... it did not look good! His caregiver came out with him and he froze! Next came the tears. The more upset he got the faster she spoke. I wish I knew what she had said to him. We stood there a few minutes trying not to crowd the young man, but we had to move so that the other families could get their kids. Hmmm, this might be
interesting.... I scooped him up which was really hard considering the amount of clothes he had on paired with a really big belly. As you can see from the picture, he did NOT want me to touch him! So, off to another room we went... Reid, kicking & screaming, the scream only an orphan can produce. I have to say, thank the Lord we had experienced an orphan scream before that moment because I felt very prepared for the episode that was unfolding. When we got into the other room, things went from bad to worse. We decided it best that he not see the caregiver again. It would be best for him to go "cold turkey" so to speak and he soon began to realize that she was not going to come to his rescue. All he could do was sob. I felt really bad for the first family who had gone in there to get acquainted with their child because when we arrived things got really loud, quick! Needless to say, they didn't stay long.

Butch leaned over to me while we were trying to get him to settle down and said, "Congratulations, Mr. & Mrs. Ferguson, it's a screamer!" We had to keep our sense of humor....We had planned for this....we were prepared! We had faith that everything would get better. And so, the great stand-off began. We tried everything to calm him down - food, new toys, balls, drink....nothing worked. Finally, we decided to just get up and move away from him. The best thing would be for him to have some space. The picture below is a snapshot of what happened when we got too close. We positioned ourselves far enough away from him so that he would realize we weren't gonna hurt him, but stayed close enough in case he did something to hurt himself. It was a very strange situation. The other families felt so bad for us. I had several moms give me a hug and tell me how sorry they were... hmmm, sorry? I guess I could see that. I'd feel sorry for someone experiencing what we were experiencing, too. What can you do? Can't send 'em back... Just give him space... He screamed, cried and whimpered for 1.5 hours, the whole time we were in that office. Finally, everyone had received their children and interviewed their caregivers... the moment of truth arrived... We had to leave! OK, at this point he'd stopped crying and the thought of trying to get him out of that building and on a bus made me kinda sick. We can do this. No big deal, right? First, get the coat on him. Not as hard as I thought because he never wanted to take it off to begin with. I think he figured it he put the coat on then he'd get to go back to where he came from. Boy did we have a surprise for him. It took a while for us to all file out of that little office and get in line with all the other families to wait for an elevator. So far, so good. We made it to the ground floor and out the door just in time to take this picture before reality set in. Reid realized we were not headed in the direction he wanted to go. I bet you can guess what happens next? He started to have a melt down. Butch picked him up and carted his chunky butt off to the bus... most of our group was already on board when the screamer arrived in full whale. I'm thinking to myself that these people are really gonna hate us by the time we get to the hotel, but what can we do? We sat at the very back of the bus, the best place for a screaming toddler. Finally, he settled down to a whimper and I figured I'd give the Teddy Grahams one more try. I unzipped the backpack and pulled out the small plastic bowl that stored them and popped open the top. What happened next was nothing short of a miracle. He took one and ate it. The rest, they say, is history... the snots and tears that is! He ate a few and fed us a few and about 15 minutes into our ride back to the hotel he was laughing. Yes, I said laughing... the kind of belly laugh that makes everyone around you laugh, too. By the time we were back to the hotel, everyone in the group was amazed at the transformation that had taken place. They could not believe that this was the same child. We, of course, were beside ourselves. Maybe this wouldn't be so bad afterall. When we got back to the hotel it was pushing 6:30 and we needed to feed the little man. Afterall, it takes a lot of energy to have a meltdown. We decided to give Reid a quick bath and put on his PJ's before heading down to the hotel buffet for a bit. I had a required meeting to do paperwork which didn't allow me any time to eat. I ordered something for Butch to take back to the room for me and headed off to meet the others leaving my two men to fend for themselves. I returned about 20 minutes later to get Butch's signature only to discover that Reid was still eating. That boy can pack away some groceries. Butch said maybe we should take him back... claim we couldn't afford to feed him. Nope, not an option. I am quite taken with this bundle of energy and he seems to really like us, too. I can't wait to see his personality emerge.

When we got back to the room it was about 9 p.m., bedtime. It had been a really long day for all of us. I headed to the shower as the guys headed to the bed. Butch put Reid in my bed (we have two twins in our room) until he fell asleep. It wasn't too long before that little guy was snoring.. (he's got a bit of a cold) and shortly thereafter, so were we. I think we were all exhausted - it had been a really big day! Reid now has his FOREVER family. God is good!

Monday, January 14, 2008

We Made It!

The term "We made it" has so many different meanings for us. First, the basement project got finished just in time for us to get Reid's room painted, or should I say, for our friends & family to get it painted. This story is amazing, but I will describe it in detail at a later date and add the pictures for those who have been following the progress of our basement/stairway remodel project.

Second, we got our very last minute travel details worked out and were fortunate enough to find a flight that was well within our budget. When you book any flight with less than 7 days to departure, the rates go up... we were lucky that our travel agent found us a Continental flight that was actually $300 cheaper than the United flight another travel agency wanted to book us on.

Third, we raised all the money we needed to finish this adoption!!!!! Woohoo!!!! God has been so faithful in this area. He gets all the glory! I had no doubt we would have what we needed when we needed it.

Fourth, we actually made it to China! We left Charlotte on Thursday and flew to Newark where we took this silly picture then hopped on a really big plane and headed for Hong Kong. It was such a long flight, just under 16 hours and when you are sitting in the economy class at the back of the plane you can't help but dream of how it must be for those people in business class. I was sandwiched between Butch, who had the window seat (not a good place to be if your 6'2") and "sleeping beauty" on my left. That guy, though nice enough, had a raging case of halitosis (really bad breath!) and must have taken a sleeping pill because he slept 90% of the flight. This posed and interesting situation for Butch and I as we promised Erin (our nurse friend) that we would "ambulate" (get up and walk around) about every two hours. This was do-able for the first 4 hours, but after that, we were trapped for about 4 hours until I just couldn't take sitting any more. I woke that man up and got out of that seat! I was going nuts, felt like a caged animal and my feet were swelling! The flight was hot (which I thought was me just having "hot flashes") and there wasn't enough water being passed around - we were dehydrating! From that point forward I decided that sleeping beauty would just have to be inconvenienced and made him let us out. Not my problem! His short self should have volunteered to switch with my tall husband if it was such a big deal, right? The in-flight entertainment system on the plane was quite impressive... we had over 258 selection to choose from - t.v. shows, movies, games, music... It kept me busy just looking at the selections... Hopefully it will keep Reid entertained on the way back home. We arrived in Hong Kong (quite a nice airport) at about 7 a.m. our time (8pm HK), exhausted ( I think I slept about 1.5 hours total on the plane), but excited to be at our final destination! We were the first family to meet the agency rep - Matthew, who was an really nice guy. He explained to us that there were many members of our travel group arriving very soon so we would wait until they had all gotten there before going to the hotel. No big deal, we are used to waiting! It was a good opportunity to begin meeting the others as they arrived.. tired and ready to get to the hotel. After a short bus ride to our hotel, we got all the families checked in and finally went to bed around 11:00 HK time (10 am est)... We were pooped! We had been up for 17 hours and had gotten just 2 hours of sleep before that, so to make sure we would actually sleep, we each took a half of a Valium and hit the hay knowing we had a group tour that started at 8 am the next morning! The bed slept good (I think), but the pillows were firm blobs of foam that would not give at all. Thank goodness it was only two nights.. I could make it that long! Saturday morning came. We had breakfast, hopped on a bus and headed off for our tour. We headed to the top of Victoria's Peak to get a view of the city & harbor from the highest point in Hong Kong. It was breezy which made it a bit cool and there was still some fog hanging around, but it was better than the rainy forecast that had been projected. This is a picture of Butch and I with Matthew. The view from here was magnificent!

We stayed in HK for two nights and bright and early Sunday (6 am wake-up call) we got ready to head to the airport for our in-country flight to Guangzhou. Our flight was scheduled for 10:30 and it went off without a hitch. We got to our destination just fine! We were met in the airport by the Guangzhou reps for CCAI, Jason & Kathy and they took us by bus to our final destination, The White Swan Hotel. The picture to the left was taken in the lobby. I think I look like I've flown halfway around the world and haven't had enough sleep, yet. This place is really nice. There is a beautiful waterfall in the lobby (picture to the left) and the staff is exceptional. The facility is much nicer than our HK hotel... I'm thankful we get to spend the rest of our trip right here. We were quite happy to get to our room and get unpacked! Our stuff found a home and we settled right in. We were given instructions on changing money, so we did that and met with some other families and headed off to lunch. This was such a fun time. It allowed us to get to know each other and already we feel like a family. It's so amazing! When we returned to our room we found a crib..... reality set in! We'd have Reid tomorrow. Wow!

It's Monday in Guanzhou and today is "D-day" or Dang Day as Butch is calling it! Today we get the kids! Everyone is quite excited... there are even two, first time parents in the group. I'm so excited for them! You can see how nervous they are and excited all at the same time. There is another couple here that has three children, two of which are about Kyle and Mackenzie's age and another that is 10. We all get along so well.

I think that just about covers it! We will be boarding the bust to the Civil Affairs Office in about 1 hour and 15 minutes. We will be the second family to receive their child and we are very fortunate that Reid only had to travel 2 hours to get here. The other little boy in our group is coming 3.5 hours and the rest of the girls are coming about 7 hours. I can't even begin to imagine what that will be like for those precious little girls. I can only pray that they will be calm and rested for their families and that their families will be able to handle whatever may happen.

Stay tuned.... pictures of Reid will be posted soon!
Blessings from China,
Mandy

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Happy New Year News

Yesterday was just another day... Butch and I set out at about 9:00 am to run some errands. We stopped for breakfast, went to his office to ship some materials he needs in California next week, got our second Hepatitis B shot, went to Sam's Club, dropped off an unexpected donation to our adoption fund with our pastor, stopped by the bank and then came home. It was a marathon event... we got home at about 4:00 pm and had a bunch of things to do here before going off to some friends for a few hours in the evening.
I was just getting ready to take down the Christmas tree when my cell phone began to ring. Butch was closest to it, so he answered it. The girl on the other end identified herself and said she was calling from CCAI, our adoption agency. As soon as he said it, I knew what the call was about - our travel approval. Woohoo! So he asked her to call back to the home phone so we could both be on a line. I went scrambling for the cordless phone and some paper as I knew I would need to write down some info... before I could get by bearings... The phone rang and we were off!


The conversation went something like this...
OK, I have some questions to ask you and we need to talk about travel dates...Which would you like to do first? "Questions" replied Butch... OK, questions it is... So she asked some basic questions regarding our paperwork, visas, etc. and then we moved to the REALLY important stuff... travel! So the next thing out of her mouth was, "well we have a group leaving on the 10th" and I broke out in laughter! What do you say to that??? The 10th? That's only 11 days away... Oh my! Butch finally had to tell me to stop as he could hear nothing in the phone but my hysterical laugh... Breathe!!! .... I regained my composure so we could resume the conversation. The next option for travel (and the last for January) was the 17th. She went on to explain that if we traveled on the 17th, we'd be traveling by ourselves as their was a rather large group leaving on Jan. 10. Hmmm.... what to do? It's New Year's Eve and the agency will be closing early and WE have to make a decision. I asked what time they would close (thank goodness they are in Colorado) and if I could make some quick calls to get some preliminary pricing for flights and I'd call back with an answer within 1 hour. Yep, not a problem!!! Butch was already calling friends asking them to pray for us... this was huge!



Oh my gosh!!! My head was spinning (and still is) and needless to say, I abandoned all hope that the tree would come down in lieu of finding out how much is would cost us to travel to China. If we didn't travel with the group, we would not be able to take any tours or benefit from the group rate... Hmmm.... seems like a no brain-er, but those airline tickets could blow this whole thing out of the water. I made some calls, hopped on the Internet and Butch called United Airlines and his boss to run this past him. All is good! Airline tickets are well within our budgeted amount and his boss said "Go!" Our visas came in weeks ago and we have all our necessary documents... What was holding us up? Nothing!!! We will travel with the group leaving on Jan. 10!!! Oh my!!



I called back to CCAI and told them to add us to that travel group and I think they were shocked that we chose that date. No problem, we'll request the consulate appointment for you and let you know when that will be so you can finalize plans. So, we wait... until the end of this week to hear when we will go to the consulate and then we will know how long we have to stay in China. We are praying that their first or second request will be honored so we won't have to stay an extra 5 days. If this is the case, we will leave on the 10th and probably return on the 25th or 26th.



WE ARE GOING TO CHINA!!!! It feels good to share this news. We are so excited!!


We still have lots to do around here... the tree will come down today and the Christmas decor will get packed away... the hairballs will get cleaned up and the house will get back to some sort of order. The focus will then be getting the basement painted. We will probably work on that today as well as getting Butch ready to leave for California tomorrow. He'll be gone 'til Saturday and isn't real excited about that, but what are you gonna do?

Will post more as I have time... I think it's going to be a crazy 9 days... soooo much to do, so little time!

Sunday, December 30, 2007

Progress is messy!


Well our basement/stairway project is taking shape. I think we've been at it for almost three months and I can finally say that I see an end in sight! Woohoo!!!! I thought it would be good to show you how the project has progressed since the last update at the beginning of demolition...

The picture to the left shows the new stairway. These are thirteen of the MOST BEAUTIFUL steps I've ever had the pleasure to walk up and down. Jim and Butch struggled with getting these into place. It took many trips to Lowe's, relocating septic lines (twice) and having the HVAC guys come move the trunk line to finally make way for the new stairway. Their hard work has really paid off... we have more stairs and a shorter rise which makes them easier to maneuver and gives us more headroom as you step into the basement space which is only 7' tall. Huge improvement!
Now, for the "man cave" as we have affectionately dubbed Kyle's new room. We had Butch's cousin Kathleen, her husband, Kelly and their son, Daniel volunteer a weekend for the cause. (Thanks guys!!!) They came up bright and early from Greenville, SC and gave a full day to studding in half of our basement to create a new room for Kyle. We felt so blessed to have them do this and it just happened that they came the weekend I had all those shots and felt so terrible. I wasn't able to help like I wanted, but I did enjoy catching up with Kathleen while the guys went to work doing their thing. At the end of the day, all the walls were set in place and our friend Terry came and ran the electrical for us. Another blessing!

When the electrical was in place Butch and Kyle installed insulation into the walls before the drywall went into place. We have been having Kyle help out as much as possible so that he can take ownership of his new space. In theory this is a great idea, but for a 15 year old, it's not such a pleasant experience. He'll get over it!

Now, it is important to point out that Butch has been suffering from a terrible case of tendinitis in his right elbow. This is very inconvenient when there is so much work to be done so, we hired some drywall guys to come finish the room - paint ready. Before they could get to work, I had a project to complete. The stippled ceiling
needed to be stripped around the edge of the room so that when they were ready to finish the drywall, they could do so properly where the walls meet the ceiling. As with any project I undertake, it's all or nothing.... so I spent all day Sunday (the day before they were to come) stripping the ceilings... the WHOLE basement ceiling AND the foyer, too. It wasn't a hard project, just messy. I thank the Lord for our Shop vac because it helped tremendously with cleaning up this mess. When I was finished, the ceilings were in great shape, as you can see. The drywall guys added some extra mud to them and we are good to go.














So, as you can see, Kyle's room has taken shape. The guys took about three days to finish the drywall and though I had to go back and fill in some areas that had little air bubbles, it was a whole lot better than having to do it all ourselves. They project was finished Friday 12/21 and as a result of the sanding we experienced a "White Christmas" inside our house. I had to spend two full days cleaning up the drywall dust and I can certainly think of ways I'd rather be spending my days (4 days before Christmas) than cleaning up that mess! However, when all is said and done... I'm glad to have the majority of the project complete and the little bit of sanding left to do is minor and shouldn't make too big a mess. Things to be thankful for!

We purchased paint this weekend for Kyle's new room and I still need to decide on the foyer color. Just too much to think about right now.. maybe next year. (ha-ha) The next step, after a quick sanding of my handy work, is to prime the ceilings and walls and then get busy painting. Butch has to travel next week, so hopefully I'll have the "man cave" painted when he returns on Friday. Once that's complete, Butch and Jim will install the doors and the trim and Terry will come back and finish a few electrical things and teach me how to install recessed canister lights. I can't wait. I have big plans for this house and it involves changing out our current lighting and adding more!!!

OK, I think you have a better understanding of what's been going on at our house... once the basement is finished and we get Kyle moved downstairs, I'll put my efforts to re-painting the room Reid will have. That will be fun and not too messy!